3 Ways The Devil Tempts #Men | #mensministry #Jesus #theology

Hey everybody,

Today I am going to talk about something that Jesus showed me when I was reading Luke the other day, how the devil tempts men in particular. Let’s look at the passage I was reading, Jesus’ words are highlighted in red, the devil in bold:

(Luke 4:1-13 NLT) “[1] Then Jesus, full of the Holy Spirit, returned from the Jordan River. He was led by the Spirit in the wilderness, [2] where he was tempted by the devil for forty days. Jesus ate nothing all that time and became very hungry.

[3] Then the devil said to him, “If you are the Son of God, tell this stone to become a loaf of bread.” [4] But Jesus told him, No! The Scriptures say, ‘People do not live by bread alone.‘”

[5] Then the devil took him up and revealed to him all the kingdoms of the world in a moment of time. [6] “I will give you the glory of these kingdoms and authority over them,” the devil said, “because they are mine to give to anyone I please. [7] I will give it all to you if you will worship me.” [8] Jesus replied, “The Scriptures say, ‘You must worship the LORD your God and serve only him.'”

[9] Then the devil took him to Jerusalem, to the highest point of the Temple, and said, “If you are the Son of God, jump off! [10] For the Scriptures say, ‘He will order his angels to protect and guard you. [11] And they will hold you up with their hands so you won’t even hurt your foot on a stone.'” [12] Jesus responded, “The Scriptures also say, ‘You must not test the LORD your God.'”

[13] When the devil had finished tempting Jesus, he left him until the next opportunity came.”

What Jesus revealed to me is that the way the devil tempts males is threefold, always along the lines of:

  1. Survival
  2. Power
  3. Recklessness

Let’s examine the scripture above once again to see:

1.) Temptation of Survival

This temptation is aimed at destabilizing the bottom two levels of Maslow’s Hierarchy Of Needs- Physiological and Safety needs (follow the link to find out more).

(Luke 4:1-4 NLT) “[1] Then Jesus, full of the Holy Spirit, returned from the Jordan River. He was led by the Spirit in the wilderness, [2] where he was tempted by the devil for forty days. Jesus ate nothing all that time and became very hungry.

[3] Then the devil said to him, “If you are the Son of God, tell this stone to become a loaf of bread.” [4] But Jesus told him, No! The Scriptures say, ‘People do not live by bread alone.‘”

Jesus was in the wilderness. Now wilderness in the Bible does not just represent a physical wilderness, forest desert etc, in this case yes it did represent a physical wilderness but it is also a metaphor for wilderness in ones life. Jesus is here showing us a metaphor of how we are to behave when faced with our own “wilderness”. Wilderness can be financial, as in lean times financially; it can also be social, maybe you don’t have any or many friends. It is basically a metaphor for any situation you find yourself in where you are vulnerable and in a place of spiritual dryness Amos 5:25 or solitude for a time of training in life Matthew 4:1.

Notice, Jesus was also hungry, He lacked basic things, in fact, He had nothing! AND THIS IS WHEN THE DEVIL MADE A MOVE, WHEN JESUS WAS VULNERABLE. The devil did not come before, when Jesus was with His friends and had just been baptised by John the Baptist and the Holy Spirit descended on Him like a dove in the previous chapter. No! The devil came when Jesus was alone and in desperate need for basic things, when His will would have been compromised due to desperation. The devil then tried to manipulate Jesus into doing something that God (the Father) did not want Jesus (God the Son) to do, with the promise of providing a quick fix, that would meet Jesus’ need sooner than God had intended. This would have been a quick fix but the long term ramifications would have been huge. Essentially, had Jesus done that then He would have disobeyed God (the Spirit) who told Jesus to fast and go into the wilderness the first place. Disobeying God would have violated the law, which would have made Jesus unrighteous, which would have meant that He was not a perfect sacrifice to fully atone for our sins, which would have meant that we would still be having to sacrifice animals and live by the Levitical laws, the Holy Spirit would not live in people but descend temporarily on people like old times and humanity would never ever ever be fully atoned to God ever, meaning there would be no salvation for anyone ever.

This is how the devil operates with men. He waits till they are vulnerable, in their wilderness, looking for a way out and a way to survive and tempts them with seemingly quick fixes that are wrong but encouraging them to self-justify their actions by giving them a lie that, they need to do this thing to survive and if they don’t do this thing they will perish. Men, how many times in your life have you been in a desperate situation and tempted to do the thing that you know is wrong just because you think, “if I don’t do this wrong thing I am going to fail”? It’s an attack. Be guarded, short term quick fixes are not always from God. It’s sometimes the devil trying to trap you and destroy everyone else around you. Adam was tempted in Genesis with a quick solution that would enhance his survival and through that everyone is now oppressed see Genesis 3. Likewise, if Jesus had given in, the whole of humanity would have been even more oppressed.

As men you need to understand the consequences of your actions and how they affect the people around you, you have to understand your privileged social status and how much power you have, not just physically but socially and economically as well. Because of your enhanced psycho-social realities, culturally men have greater social power which means that you act as gateways to not only your life but the lives of others and you aren’t taking this seriously enough. You’re just doing things to “survive” and not thinking about the long term consequences of your actions. It is the short term relief that the devil is using to hoodwink you, to draw your attention away from the long term consequences of your actions and eternity, we should be eternity minded when we make our decisions and that applies to men and women.

This kind of temptation can also be related to sex, maybe you feel like you really would like to sleep with whoever and just get short term relief so you can “survive” *rolls eyes* for a bit longer but there are long term consequences to that, especially before marriage or if the woman in question IS NOT YOURS!! Maybe you believe in “medicinal masturbation”… lol. Just to “ease the pressure on your balls” to help you “survive” *rolls eyes*, till you can get married to your fiancée/girlfriend. Don’t do that. It’s the devil setting you up to fail by trying to get you into habits that you can’t shake before you’re even married. Before you know it you’re hooked and you won’t actually be able to be stimulated by a real woman or a real vagina, you can actually condition your brain to only respond to porn. This video from this ministry is a good resource for this issue (follow the link to find out more). . It’s because of how the brain works and the reward centres in the brain see my previous article for more information about the brain (follow the link to find out more). The devil is trying to destroy your long term outlook. However, Jesus wants you to have life and life more abundantly but that requires patience. I’m still trying myself in the area of patience so I’m speaking to myself as well.

2.) Temptation of Power

This temptation is aimed at destabilizing the next two levels of Maslow’s Hierarchy Of Needs- Social belonging and Esteem needs (follow the link to find out more).

(Luke 4:5-8 NLT) “[5] Then the devil took him up and revealed to him all the kingdoms of the world in a moment of time. [6] “I will give you the glory of these kingdoms and authority over them,” the devil said, “because they are mine to give to anyone I please. [7] I will give it all to you if you will worship me.” [8] Jesus replied, “The Scriptures say, ‘You must worship the LORD your God and serve only him.'”

Again, remember at this point Jesus is still in the wilderness and Jesus’ basic need of survival is appearing to not being met immediately. So Jesus is still in a position of vulnerability. In this position of vulnerability, the devil offers power, much more extreme and such a far cry away from what Jesus was going through. The only cost for this power is to worship the devil.

This is another way that the devil gets men in particular. The seductive lure of POWER! The devil flaunts all the joys that wealth can bring and all the amazing things one can do and have with it. The cost for this wealth is to worship the devil. That can come basically in the form of doing anything wrong, anything that can compromise your integrity but will gain you some kind of financial gain. Maybe, you’re encouraged to lie about something, maybe a relationship, your faith or even anything that will compromise your integrity, in order to gain quickly, financially. These get rich quick schemes are often traps from the devil designed to compromise you. Don’t envy people who are super rich, you have absolutely no idea how they got it.

Take the Western powers for example. The reason why Britain, America and Europe are so rich is because they had an enormous unpaid workforce, enslaved African peoples. The things they did to those people are unthinkable. One punishment the Caucasian male slave owners gave African slaves was when they tried to escape they would get one slave to poo into the mouth of the slave that tried to run away and he had to swallow it. The most attractive African women were pimped out to other male Caucasian slave owners in a part of the salve trade known as the Pretty Trade. The male Caucasian slave owners would also use any African slave that they found attractive as a concubine, just for sex, the African slaves were not allowed to refuse, so they raped them. The slaves made Britain, America and Europe so much money, that’s why the West is so rich today. It was not just African people who were enslaved, pick any country in the Common Wealth and those people were enslaved too. There were even indentured Irish slaves as well! The White people were more than happy to enslave their own people too…

Has anybody asked you to do something that you know isn’t right or you know will somehow compromise your integrity but offered to compensate you financially for it? Don’t do it, it’s a trap that men fall for all the time. That’s why we have dictators, wars and the global economic crisis due to bankers greed.

This is also related to sex. Dominating women sexually, being sexually aggressive towards women because you know they are not strong enough to push you away. It’s a power trip. Thinking rapey thought’s, it’s the devil trying to seduce you and tempt you along the lines of power. Even if she is your wife, if she doesn’t want to don’t force her, it’s still rape.

Whenever we try to upgrade our power or sphere of influence through means that are wrong we are worshipping the devil.

3.) Temptation of Recklessness

This temptation is aimed at destabilising the last two levels of Maslow’s Hierarchy Of Needs- Self Actualization and Self Transcendence (follow the link to find out more).

(Luke 4:9-12 NLT) “[9] Then the devil took him to Jerusalem, to the highest point of the Temple, and said, “If you are the Son of God, jump off! [10] For the Scriptures say, ‘He will order his angels to protect and guard you. [11] And they will hold you up with their hands so you won’t even hurt your foot on a stone.'” [12] Jesus responded, “The Scriptures also say, ‘You must not test the LORD your God.'”

Again, Jesus was still in a wilderness and hungry, the devil tempted Him first by appealing to his basic needs, then he appealed to men’s desire for power, especially when they are in a state where they are in a state of reduced power or powerlessness or vulnerability of any kind, finally, the devil tried to tempt Jesus along the lines of men’s recklessness.

When we “test” God we are putting ourselves in the position of employer of God. We are saying, to God that God is accountable to us and that we are going to give God an observation (those of you reading this who work will understand what an observation is, it’s when your manager decides that they want to check that you are actually doing the job that they are paying you to do and that you are actually doing it well, so they stand there breathing down your neck watching you do it. Then you have a meeting afterwards with them/or whoever observed you, where they tell you where you could improve or what you’re doing well. It’s annoying and stressful, that’s partly why I work for myself now).

God doesn’t work for us, we work for God. God doesn’t have to prove anything to us, it’s we who have to prove ourselves to God.

This is another place where the devil attacks men. When they have that attitude that I’m going to test God’s power, it’s an insult to God. Moreover, it leads men to do stupid things, disregarding the brains that God gave humans to reason and do stupid things, where they do not take due care because they assume God is going to save them. Yes if you want to do something like jump out of a plane, make sure you pack your parachute. God is not going to save you if you jump out expecting angels to save you because it’s an appalling act of stupidity that God is not going to reward by saving you. It’s not in God’s interest because then everyone on earth would do silly things that hurt each other. That’s why God won’t save you. He won’t save you so as to teach other people not to do it. God does not want humanity to be backward.

I used to date this idiot right, when he went on holiday he wouldn’t take his phone with him. He said that I should just have faith that God would protect him and that me worrying about him was a sign of a lack of faith and that I didn’t really believe that Jesus was with him. With that attitude and all the drinking that he did when he was away, yeah, he’s right I do not believe that Jesus was with him lol. I believe that he survived his holidays on his own and that God didn’t actually have anything to do with it. It was reckless, inconsiderate of the felling of both me and his poor long-suffering mother. Disgusting jerk. That kind of thing is testing God. I didn’t want him to take his phone because I wanted to call him all the time because he used to call me all the time and I was happy for a break! I wanted him to take his phone because he was going to a place he didn’t live and it’s a sensible precaution.

Men do stupid crap all the time. Idiots. Stop it, you’re going to hurt yourselves and God is not necessarily going to save you. It’s always justified and covered by phrases like “oh well boys will be boys” etc. The devil is appealing to your idiocy, trying to make you, again, do something quick, that is going to damage you in the long run and you are thinking, don’t worry it’ll be ok God is with me but not necessarily. Certain adrenaline seeking sports, if you want to do them, wear a helmet? Or don’t do it at all. If something seems like it’s an unreasonable risk, don’t do it. If there is a likelihood that you might die doing an activity and it’s not necessary because you’re not a fireman or a policeman, think twice. Short term stupidity can lead to long term consequences and God will not facilitate, encourage or enable human stupidity, ever, especially when you are trying to use him as “staff” that will catch you, especially because letting you break your leg will mean that you have lots of time alone when you can read your bible and that scenario does suit God.

This can also be related to sex. You might think, yeah well you know, just a quickie, it might make a baby or whatever but I’m sure that God will get me out of this, let’s just test it to see what happens 😉 No!

Commonalities with the three scenarios

Notice that the three scenarios have something in common.

  1. Temptation happens in the midst of vulnerability – the devil waits till a man is in a vulnerable position when his ability to rationalize is compromised.
  2. Quick decisions for quick fixes – the devil tries to make a person make decisions quickly without thinking it through. Which is why the devil waits till a man is vulnerable, desperation and fear make you do silly things
  3. All three ways of tempting encourage men to make poor life choices when it comes to sex.
  4. The devil temps men in order to ruin everybody – when men give in to temptation, it doesn’t just affect men it affects everybody, women, children, animals, the environment, everything because, culturally, men have more power than women.

How did Jesus deal with temptation?

Jesus used The Word!

(Luke 4:4,8,12 NLT)

“…[4] But Jesus told him, No! The Scriptures say, ‘People do not live by bread alone.‘”…

[8] Jesus replied, “The Scriptures say, ‘You must worship the LORD your God and serve only him.‘” …

[12] Jesus responded, “The Scriptures also say, ‘You must not test the LORD your God.

Every time the devil tried to tempt Jesus it was to destabilise Jesus’ motivation away from being satisfied by and through God and towards being satisfied by the devil, by encouraging Jesus to selfishly satisfy His needs through Himself, when and how the devil made it seem attractive. Jesus rebuffed these temptations by responding to the devil with The Word, that is the words of the Bible. Jesus was able to do this because He knew the scriptures. That comes from READING THE BIBLE EVERY DAY. Jesus came to fulfil the Law. This was outlined in Exodus, detailed in Leviticus, Further expounded and acted upon in Numbers and repeated in Deuteronomy. One of the laws was the following:

(Deuteronomy 6:6-9 NLT) “[6] And you must commit yourselves wholeheartedly to these commands that I am giving you today. [7] Repeat them again and again to your children. Talk about them when you are at home and when you are on the road, when you are going to bed and when you are getting up. [8] Tie them to your hands and wear them on your forehead as reminders. [9] Write them on the doorposts of your house and on your gates.”

Which was reiterated to Joshua later on:

(Joshua 1:8 NLT) “[8] Study this Book of Instruction continually. Meditate on it day and night so you will be sure to obey everything written in it. Only then will you prosper and succeed in all you do.”

We are supposed to read the Bible daily and read it to our children and remind ourselves of it, that way you get to know it off your head, so when temptation comes you can recollect what God says to do. So when the devil attack your mind you can respond with The Word and use The Word to inform your actions, especially when you are to emotionally compromised to think straight.

MEN, LIFE IS AN OPEN BOOK EXAM, YOU ARE NOT SUPPOSED TO DO IT ON YOUR OWN. YOU HAVE THE ANSWERS IN THE BIBLE. When you don’t read your Bible gentlemen, it’s the equivalent of doing a calculator Maths exam without ever picking up your calculator and just leaving it on the desk…

Final Warning

(Luke 4:13 NLT) “[13] When the devil had finished tempting Jesus, he left him until the next opportunity came.”

Temptation did not stop for Jesus, the temptation that we saw early on in the Gospels (Matthew, Mark, Luke and John) is just the only time that any kind of tempting of Jesus was written down. From what we can see from the above verse is that Jesus was tempted constantly like the rest of us. The only difference is that Jesus did not give in because Jesus knew and used The Word!

Where’s your Bible dude?…

I keep mine on me in the form of an app on my phone, it’s just a practical way to do things. Hope that made you think.

Catherine x

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What are you doing with your freedom? | #christianity #Jesus #internet #time #blog #endtimes

Hello everybody,

A serious one today. I have been meditating on when Jesus is going to come back and judge the world. Jesus is all around us and always has been but Jesus came once in a way that everyone could see to save us by taking the penalty of our sin, which was death, on Himself, to reconcile us to God.

The Bible also talks about Jesus returning a second time to then judge us. Basically the first trip was a mercy trip, the second trip is Jesus saying “I told you how to behave; corrected your misunderstandings; warned you and took the penalty on myself the first time; now you know better as you have had well over 2000 years to meditate on what I said, multiple independent theologians, theorists and philosophers have pawed over the Bible to help people understand; plus you have the Holy Spirit so you know much better and there is no longer any excuse for your behaviour and anyone still misbehaving is going to get punished”. This second arrival of Jesus in a way that everyone, not just followers of Jesus can see, is commonly called the Second Coming of Jesus. The Bible tells us about this time in multiple places but here is an example from Mark.

Mark 13:4-27,32-37 [NLT]
“Tell us, when will all this happen? What sign will show us that these things are about to be fulfilled?” [5] Jesus replied, “Don’t let anyone mislead you, [6] for many will come in my name, claiming, ‘I am the Messiah.’ They will deceive many. [7] And you will hear of wars and threats of wars, but don’t panic. Yes, these things must take place, but the end won’t follow immediately. [8] Nation will go to war against nation, and kingdom against kingdom. There will be earthquakes in many parts of the world, as well as famines. But this is only the first of the birth pains, with more to come. [9] “When these things begin to happen, watch out! You will be handed over to the local councils and beaten in the synagogues. You will stand trial before governors and kings because you are my followers. But this will be your opportunity to tell them about me. [10] For the Good News must first be preached to all nations. [11] But when you are arrested and stand trial, don’t worry in advance about what to say. Just say what God tells you at that time, for it is not you who will be speaking, but the Holy Spirit. [12] “A brother will betray his brother to death, a father will betray his own child, and children will rebel against their parents and cause them to be killed. [13] And everyone will hate you because you are my followers. But the one who endures to the end will be saved. [14] “The day is coming when you will see the sacrilegious object that causes desecration standing where he should not be.” (Reader, pay attention!) “Then those in Judea must flee to the hills. [15] A person out on the deck of a roof must not go down into the house to pack. [16] A person out in the field must not return even to get a coat. [17] How terrible it will be for pregnant women and for nursing mothers in those days. [18] And pray that your flight will not be in winter. [19] For there will be greater anguish in those days than at any time since God created the world. And it will never be so great again. [20] In fact, unless the Lord shortens that time of calamity, not a single person will survive. But for the sake of his chosen ones he has shortened those days. [21] “Then if anyone tells you, ‘Look, here is the Messiah,’ or ‘There he is,’ don’t believe it. [22] For false messiahs and false prophets will rise up and perform signs and wonders so as to deceive, if possible, even God’s chosen ones. [23] Watch out! I have warned you about this ahead of time! [24] “At that time, after the anguish of those days, the sun will be darkened, the moon will give no light, [25] the stars will fall from the sky, and the powers in the heavens will be shaken. [26] Then everyone will see the Son of Man coming on the clouds with great power and glory. [27] And he will send out his angels to gather his chosen ones from all over the world-from the farthest ends of the earth and heaven…[32] “However, no one knows the day or hour when these things will happen, not even the angels in heaven or the Son himself. Only the Father knows. [33] And since you don’t know when that time will come, be on guard! Stay alert! [34] “The coming of the Son of Man can be illustrated by the story of a man going on a long trip. When he left home, he gave each of his slaves instructions about the work they were to do, and he told the gatekeeper to watch for his return. [35] You, too, must keep watch! For you don’t know when the master of the household will return-in the evening, at midnight, before dawn, or at daybreak. [36] Don’t let him find you sleeping when he arrives without warning. [37] I say to you what I say to everyone: Watch for him!”

So all we know is that it is going to happen but we don’t know when. So what will happen when Jesus comes? Well the Bible says:

Matthew 24:37-41 [NLT]
“When the Son of Man returns, it will be like it was in Noah’s day. [38] In those days before the flood, the people were enjoying banquets and parties and weddings right up to the time Noah entered his boat. [39] People didn’t realize what was going to happen until the flood came and swept them all away. That is the way it will be when the Son of Man comes. [40] “Two men will be working together in the field; one will be taken, the other left. [41] Two women will be grinding flour at the mill; one will be taken, the other left.”

God is just going to suddenly take people to heaven, you know like the end of Avengers: Infinity War? Except people who are taken go to heaven instead of dying like in the film lol. If you’ve seen the film “the end” is going to be like that but happy lol. What will happen to all those people who God doesn’t take to heaven? They get judged for not being ready. What do I mean by not being ready? I mean people who have not given their lives to God and are not dong the right thing, whatever that is in their scenario. Maybe you’re secretly sleeping with you’re girlfriend when you know you should not be? You can’t take your eye of your colleagues wife? Or ladies you’re lusting after your gardener! lol. Stop it, deal with those things that put a distance between you and God. I’m talking to myself as well, I know there are some things I do that I should not. This is what happens to those whose lives are not right with God making them not ready:

Matthew 13:24-30,36-43 [NLT]
Here is another story Jesus told: “The Kingdom of Heaven is like a farmer who planted good seed in his field. [25] But that night as the workers slept, his enemy came and planted weeds among the wheat, then slipped away. [26] When the crop began to grow and produce grain, the weeds also grew. [27] “The farmer’s workers went to him and said, ‘Sir, the field where you planted that good seed is full of weeds! Where did they come from?’ [28] “‘An enemy has done this!’ the farmer exclaimed. “‘Should we pull out the weeds?’ they asked. [29] “‘No,’ he replied, ‘you’ll uproot the wheat if you do. [30] Let both grow together until the harvest. Then I will tell the harvesters to sort out the weeds, tie them into bundles, and burn them, and to put the wheat in the barn.'”…[36] Then, leaving the crowds outside, Jesus went into the house. His disciples said, “Please explain to us the story of the weeds in the field.” [37] Jesus replied, “The Son of Man is the farmer who plants the good seed. [38] The field is the world, and the good seed represents the people of the Kingdom. The weeds are the people who belong to the evil one. [39] The enemy who planted the weeds among the wheat is the devil. The harvest is the end of the world, and the harvesters are the angels. [40] “Just as the weeds are sorted out and burned in the fire, so it will be at the end of the world. [41] The Son of Man will send his angels, and they will remove from his Kingdom everything that causes sin and all who do evil. [42] And the angels will throw them into the fiery furnace, where there will be weeping and gnashing of teeth. [43] Then the righteous will shine like the sun in their Father’s Kingdom. Anyone with ears to hear should listen and understand!

So if you’re not ready, meaning that you have not given your life to Christ and you’re not doing the right things then you will not being gong to heaven you will go to hell. You have to not only have given your life to Christ but you must also be doing the right thing as well.

The Bible gives us another metaphor of how we are to wait for Jesus to return: ( just to clarify we are the servants in the metaphor and Jesus is the master by the way)

Luke 12:35-40,42-48 NLT
“Be dressed for service [bloggers note: this service represents the end of the world] and keep your lamps burning, [36] as though you were waiting for your master to return from the wedding feast. Then you will be ready to open the door and let him in the moment he arrives and knocks. [37] The servants who are ready and waiting for his return will be rewarded. I tell you the truth, he himself will seat them, put on an apron, and serve them as they sit and eat! [38] He may come in the middle of the night or just before dawn. But whenever he comes, he will reward the servants who are ready. [39] “Understand this: If a homeowner knew exactly when a burglar was coming, he would not permit his house to be broken into. [40] You also must be ready all the time, for the Son of Man will come when least expected.”… [42] And the Lord replied, “A faithful, sensible servant is one to whom the master can give the responsibility of managing his other household servants and feeding them. [43] If the master returns and finds that the servant has done a good job, there will be a reward. [44] I tell you the truth, the master will put that servant in charge of all he owns. [45] But what if the servant thinks, ‘My master won’t be back for a while,’ and he begins beating the other servants, partying, and getting drunk? [46] The master will return unannounced and unexpected, and he will cut the servant in pieces and banish him with the unfaithful. [47] “And a servant who knows what the master wants, but isn’t prepared and doesn’t carry out those instructions, will be severely punished. [48] But someone who does not know, and then does something wrong, will be punished only lightly. When someone has been given much, much will be required in return; and when someone has been entrusted with much, even more will be required.

And that last verse is where we return to the issue of the title of this post.

Luke 12:48 NLT
But someone who does not know, and then does something wrong, will be punished only lightly. When someone has been given much, much will be required in return; and when someone has been entrusted with much, even more will be required.

In the West we are soo privileged, we have soo much, we have so much freedom. In the grand scheme of things we are rich compared to everybody else. We have religious freedom, women don’t have to be covered up if they don’t want to. If we want to go to church we can without fear, our internet isn’t censored like in other parts of the world. We have internet! We invented it! (well a British man did actually). We have access to books, wealth, information, teachers, etc and so on.

In the East, hey don’t have access to all of those things, however, God has made things more even when it comes to Jesus’ second coming. The East with all their disenfranchisement has something precious that the West does not have and that is…time.

When Jesus comes back, as is the case currently, whatever day it is in the West it will be one day later in the East. The East is sometimes a good 8-24hrs (double check this lol) ahead of the West. SEE THIS WORLD CLOCK FOR FURTHER DETAILS The East has one more day than the West to get their lives straight with Jesus. In the West we are so free to look for ourselves, if you haven’t heard of God and you’re part of a European /American country you have lived a very sheltered life indeed.

The reason why I say the East has more time is because if Jesus comes during their morning time it’s our night time, people could have gone to bed angry or had an argument or a rough night, they are sleeping, caught unaware with no time to ask God’s forgiveness. Whereas in the East they would have already had a rough night, woken up had time to think, meditated on their behaviour and maybe thought let me ask Jesus forgiveness. Even if Jesus comes during their nighttime they still would end up having had more daytime than us. More time to meditate.

God will ask you what you did with the prosperity you were given. We might have a couple hours less daytime in the end but the West has been given so much other things and God expects much from us in return, those of us who are more free should be more ready, more aware of God and doing good and not in need of extra time like some other places. Interestingly, the Pacific Islands are actually the most ahead in time and the America’s are the most behind, America has the least time. Mmm the most powerful country has the least time and the least power countries have the most.

My question today to those of us in the West is what are you doing with your freedom? Whilst you still have it… What are you using your internet for? What’s on your laptop? What’s on your smartphone? Hope Jesus comes when we aren’t sleeping. How are you using your prosperity? Are you using it to get to know your creator and do good to make the world a better place or are you using it to make a nuisance of yourself?

After reading this please get out your Bible and pray, if you don’t know Jesus but would like to or you feel like you need to refresh your relationship with Jesus just say:

“Jesus I’m sorry for trying to do things my way, please come into my life, make me a new person and please forgive me of my sins, Holy Spirit please fill me and help me to worship Jesus and do the right thing”

Then please find a church filled with some good Bible believing people and start your journey with God. The Alpha Course is a good place to start for new Christians! :–> https://alpha.org/

Catherine x

I had an encounter with #Jesus in my bathroom!! || #Christianity #JesusChrist #spiritual |

I had an encounter with Jesus!

This all happened in my bathroom! I was in my bathroom and I said to Jesus,

” Jesus, please make your presence known to me”

Then I just closed my eyes, put my hands outstretched in front of me like this and waited.

Then suddenly it was like something really brilliant was in front of me and I felt a strong wind, a wind that was strong enough to blow my arms backward. I started to shake a tiny bit and I felt a very powerful presence in front of me.

I knew this was Jesus, the being in front of me was so brilliant and so magnificent it could only be Jesus.

I had an overwhelming sense that Jesus was so holy, the most holy being I had or ever will meet. I was compelled to bow, in fact Jesus made me bow. My head felt heavy and I wasn’t in control of my body, it was like Jesus pushed my head down to bow because although Jesus is my friend, Jesus is so holy and magnificent and that He commands respect. I felt like I must bow because Jesus is God and I am not.

It was almost too much, as I was just processing how holy and magnificent Jesus is I started to get upset. I almost stupidly said it’s too much no more. I had such a strong sense that Jesus is so incredibly holy and compared to Jesus who I could feel was magnificent through and through and holy I felt dirty, like a scrap, like nothing.

I was suddenly aware that there seemed to be a thin layer of dust on me, I realised that that was sin. It was clear to me that Jesus is so much better than I am. I realised, sometimes we walk around and we think we are good people, then when we get into the presence of God we realise that God’s standards are so high that, without Jesus, we will never be clean. Once I asked Jesus forgiveness for my sins I didn’t feel dirty any more.

Jesus’ presence was so strong that I actually started to blow away and it was either Jesus Himself or an angel that actually grabbed me by the my arm (the bit between my shoulder and elbow) and pulled me back to standing in front of Jesus, Jesus’ presence was that strong, I was literally blown away. I was thinking to myself, wait a second, this is who I have been praying to and watching films with?!!???!!? (I like to invite Jesus to watch films and eat with me). It just shows how good Jesus is, I know now that we are just so beneath Him and that means that everything He does for us is just mercy on His part.

The thing that I also noticed was that Jesus made me wait. I wanted to do something and I said to Jesus

“ok when You’re ready please release my hands then I’ll know You’re ready for me to get on with the things that I want to do after this”

But Jesus made me wait! Not only did Jesus make me wait but Jesus made me wait

IN SILENCE…

I found that really interesting. I was just standing there, my head bowed and in silence, ready to get on with other things, then Jesus took my hands, which had stuff in them ready and poised to get on with other things, lowered them and made me stand there with my head bowed and wait, in silence….. I don’t know how long I was standing there but Jesus was determined that I get on with things in Jesus time not mine.

That got me thinking, you know sometimes at church, not just my church but church in general, we like to fill the space with noise. Sometimes maybe someone is just pinging on the guitar or you have string pads to fill the space or the preacher is just speaking and speaking and speaking and speaking…. etc. All of these things, although not inherently evil, are distractions. There is certainly something in taking time out to have a contemplative silence, remember, Elijah looked for God in the whirlwind, the earthquake and the fire but God was actually in the whisper!

1 Kings 19:11-13 [NLT] “[11] “Go out and stand before me on the mountain,” the LORD told him. And as Elijah stood there, the LORD passed by, and a mighty windstorm hit the mountain. It was such a terrible blast that the rocks were torn loose, but the LORD was not in the wind. After the wind there was an earthquake, but the LORD was not in the earthquake. [12] And after the earthquake there was a fire, but the LORD was not in the fire. And after the fire there was the sound of a gentle whisper. [13] When Elijah heard it, he wrapped his face in his cloak and went out and stood at the entrance of the cave. And a voice said, “What are you doing here, Elijah?””

For a long time He did not let me get on with the things that I wanted to do, in fact, at one point, I even thought that Jesus wasn’t even going to let me do them. Even though it was Jesus who I felt was the one who told me to go do this activity, I still thought, as there was so much waiting, that He was going to send me packing, say no and direct me to do something else. However, when it seemed properly like Jesus is going to tell me to go do something else, Jesus lowered my hands and I felt released to be able to do something else.

I’ve realised from my experience that we Christians say “oh yeah Jesus is holy” we have no idea. We don’t know what holiness actually is. The holiness I felt within Jesus does not come from earth. We describe holiness from human standards of goodness but the earth is so polluted, so full of wrong, that we do not have any frame of reference or word on this earth to describe the actual holiness of God because we simply don’t actually encounter it on earth. Earthly standards of good are nothing compared to God. Not one single person is good, as defined by God’s standards.

Also, it became very clear to me that we Christians think we know Jesus, we do not. We think we have an idea of what Jesus might want, we don’t, not always. I think this because the being I encountered in my bathroom was magnificent, nothing was imperfect, Jesus was magnificent to His core. We are not. Therefore, we cannot assume anything about someone like that. I could also sense intelligence, intelligence much greater than mine and I got the sense of a plan that I was not necessarily privy to. I felt in that instance that Jesus thinks that many of the liturgical traditions we have are stupid and many of the church traditions Jesus is just above it. I’m talking about things like, the solemn way communion is done (more the high church circles), the silly outfits, the ridiculous church rules like Catholic priests can’t inform on paedophiles when they have confessed in confession to a priest. I just didn’t feel like they mattered. Jesus felt sensible and I felt like He was the source of all common sense. Someone so intelligent and magnificent would think that it’s ridiculous that Catholic priests aren’t encouraged to inform on paedo’s.

Jesus has shown Himself to me before but in this instance He came as Jesus the King of Kings, helping me to understand the different aspects of who He is. I did ask Jesus a while ago to give me a revelation of Himself as King and Jesus answered. Seeing the magnificence of Jesus and observing how holy Jesus is also made me realise that Jesus deserves much more respect than I and others have been giving Him. Jesus is holy, magnificent and brilliant, I have never met anyone like Jesus. Lets all make an effort to give Jesus respect. We think we have a choice to respect Him, I realised we don’t.

Catherine x

[Video] How I compose #music | #composer #Christian #Jesus #acousticguitar #guitar #arranger #femaleacousticguitarist

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One of my key skills is arranging and orchestrating. I learned these skills during school and honed them during my BA (Hons) Popular Music & Record Production and my Masters of Music in Music Composition.

Basically, an Arranger will take an existing piece of music and “rearrange” it for maybe more instruments, less instruments aka a Piano Reduction for example or even a whole different set of instruments for a performance. This forum post gives a good explanation. An Orchestrator is similar to an arranger but instead they take bits from a composers drafts and basically carry on the piece/project, expanding it to an orchestra or other ensemble but maintain it within the style of the original composer. Sometimes a composer will maybe play music to the orchestrator and ask them to make it into a score. I can do that.

Anyway, I just wanted to show you an examples of my work on other people’s pieces then show you something I did!

So this example is my most popular arrangement/orchestration:

For more examples of my Arrangements and Orchestrating follow this link

I Will Always Return Soundtrack Version (End Title) – by Bryan Adams

This piece was originally for Solo Tenor, Pop Band and Orchestra, I rearranged it for Harp and String Orchestra.

  • I Will Always Return Soundtrack Version (End Title) by Bryan Adams Arr. C. Waithe-Arnold

This was one I did for my masters:

De pas sur la neige – by Debussy

This piece was originally for solo piano. Not one of Debussy’s most interesting pieces but it wasn’t my choice… I expanded the piano score into an orchestral score and composed/arranged in the style of Debussy.

  • De pas sur la neige – Orchestrated & Arr. by Catherine Waithe-Arnold

I do this kind of thing constantly in my work either when I do arrangements for the Worship band or something I’ve knocked up at the request of one of my students and I am thankful to Jesus for giving me the skills to do such a thing. It’s incredibly handy!

I thought I would show you how I compose. Basically, I compose by arranging and orchestrating my own music. So I work from a basic arrangement more often than not, me singing on with my guitar, then I expand that to orchestra + band or something else. Lets look at a few examples of my own work:

I Can’t Believe The Colour!

Originally for Acoustic Guitar and Soprano Solo:

  • I Can’t Believe The Colour [Backing Track] – Orchestration & Arr. by Catherine Waithe-Arnold

I gave the backing track so you can just see what it is that I did with the instruments

Here’s me performing the full track:

So you see how everything comes together!

Now for another example!

I’m Only Human All Of The Time

Here’s the original! Again, for Soprano voice and Acoustic Guitar

Jesus gives me soo many good ideas! So I reworked this to be for Soprano voice and Piano ending up being this:

We Will Fall In Love

I wrote this song for friends, when I played harp at their wedding, it’s about two people who get married when they are middle aged but it still feels just as exciting as when they were young. Which is what happened to my friends!

With the help of my two guy friends it turned into a piece for Guitar, Soprano voice, Solo Elec guitar and Keyboard. Unreal!

The Herdsman’s Son and The Foundling

Again this song started out as me and my guitar

But then I thought I mustn’t be lazy and so I found something to hit, I got out my Irish Penny Whistle (yes that’s me playing, I wish I recorded me playing it lol) and my Harp (this is what sounds like an acoustic bass) and made it into a pop/folk arrangement, plus backing vox! Then I just overlaid it onto the audio from the video, so the audio was ripped from the video, added to, then put back. Processed to within an inch of it’s life… lol

Ok so last one! My Favourite one! 😛

I Hope The Neighbours Don’t See

Original version was for again Soprano voice (aka me) and Acoustic Guitar like 99% of my songs.

I then thought, I can do better! So Jesus helped me to do so! In case you’re wondering what on earth that song is about read this: Explaination of my song about sex!

So I decided to add some pop arrangement, plus some orchestral instruments (because I enjoy the sound of the orchestra and I am trained to arrange and orchestrate anyway) to it to make this: Pop/orchestral fusion, that’s my speciality. (Soprano Vox, Female Backing Vox, Acoustic Guitar, Bass Guitar, Drum Kit, Piano, String Orchestra)

Then afterwards I thought, you know what? I want to strip this back, back to my roots and love of soft, relaxing music, so I stripped it down to make a version String Orchestra, Piano, Soprano Vox and Female Backing Vox, This one is my favourite orchestration/arrangement.

Enjoy 🙂

Lots of love and Copyright © 2018 Catherine Waithe-Arnold 😛

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The Inherited Occult “Christianity” of the African-Caribbean Diaspora living in Anglo-American Society | #Christianity #Jesus #colonialism #theology #slavery #womanism

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I promised you something a little more deep last week so here it is enjoy!

I think that the “Christian” culture within the African-Caribbean diaspora that are descendents of slaves and live within Anglo-America (England and America), is flawed. I do not think that it is Christianity at all. It makes African-Caribbean Anglo-American’s too passive towards abuse and it keeps them opressed. The Colonial “Christian” tradition handed down to them stems from colonialism and is damaging and full of lies and needs to exorcise colonialism and racism from it. The colonial tradition that Anglo-American African-Caribbeans have inherited damages their communities, stops them correcting each other, permits abuse and enslaves them to the Caucaisan Alpha Male to this day, who is still profiteering from his slave trading ancestors. I submit that Anglo-American African-Caribbean peoples need as a matter of urgency to forget everything they thought they knew about Christianity, re-read the scriptures, take a critical look at their history and really study the scriptures through subjective lens, remove their culture and see what it really says. Then they will find that true Christianity does not enable bad behaviour or abuse in the way it was used during colonial times and this present day.

The initial engagement between African peoples in the Americas and Christianity came within the context of the abuse that happened within slavery. These enslaved peoples were taken from Western Africa and abused by their slavers, who used the bible and Christianity to justify enslaving the Africans (Noll 2006) (Haynes 2002) (Oshatz 2012). For example, Genesis 4:15:

[Genesis 4:15 NLT] “[15] The LORD replied, “No, for I will give a sevenfold punishment to anyone who kills you.” Then the LORD put a mark on Cain to warn anyone who might try to kill him.”

The mark that God put on Cain was interpreted as involving dark skin and Africans were regarded as the accursed descendants of Cain. Also in Genesis 9, Ham the son of Noah saw his father naked when he was drunk and sleeping. When Noah recovered from his drunken stupor he cursed his son Ham saying:

[Genesis 9:25-27 NLT] “[25] Then he cursed Canaan, the son of Ham: “May Canaan be cursed! May he be the lowest of servants to his relatives.” [26] Then Noah said, “May the LORD, the God of Shem, be blessed, and may Canaan be his servant! [27] May God expand the territory of Japheth! May Japheth share the prosperity of Shem, and may Canaan be his servant.””

African people were identified as descendents of Ham partly due to Genesis 10:6 associating his decedents with parts of Africa, e,g, the Cushites were from Ethiopia:

[Genesis 10:6 NLT] “[6] The descendants of Ham were Cush, Mizraim, Put, and Canaan.”

Other verses such as Ephesians 6:5, Colossians 3:22, 1 Timothy 6:1 and Philemon were used as well to support a master slave relationship. Consequently, the curse on Ham was used to justify slavery of the African people as a biblical act, requiring the obedience of the enslaved African’s to their European masters. Even those who did not support slavery still had notions of white supremacy because of such scriptures. Within the patriarchal historical context of colonialism, African American women were both subordinate to men and to Caucasians (Junior 2015, pp.42-43).

Along with physical abuse; forced surrogacy e.g. forced to be a “mammy” to Caucasian children (Williams 2013) and the separation of family groups, breaking down the most basic unit of human civilization; the slavers oppressed the Africans through loss of cultural identity, removal of gender distinctions and control over the African woman’s reproductive functions.

The African’s lost of cultural identity when they were forced to adopt Eurocentric cultures/food/dress and even names in the colonies. To this day, Caribbean people still suffer from the practice of renaming as they still bear surnames of the last person who owned their ancestors, instead of their original African surnames.

The removal of the gender identities of the Africans had particularly difficult consequences for the women. In North America, understandings of the Bible as authoritative and normative shaped the social norms of the Caucasian slavers and contributed to the notion of women as subordinate to men. Nineteenth century Caucasian gendered ideals held up the Caucasian woman as being pure and fragile. Yet any non-Caucasian woman or poor women were not considered “real women” in the same way as wealthy Caucasian women (Junior 2015, p.42). The enslaved women were not seen as women or delicate or “ladies” like affluent Caucasian women. Instead, they were seen as masculinised, licentious, primitive and lacking in morals (Harris-Perry 2011) (Hooks 1981) (White 1999). Those misconceptions encouraged dehumanizing practices in North America during slave times. The African women slaves were made to do the same work as the African men, as they were seen as just as tough, unlike Caucasian women who were perceived as the fairer sex (Mann 1989). For example, the African women were expected to plough the fields, haul logs, drive out hogs etc typically a job reserved for men but they were seen as being hardier that Caucasian women (Williams 2013).

The slavers took autonomy over the enslaved African women’s body through coerced sexual activity to either: use them as “breeding stock” to make more slave babies with other African enslaved men who were used as “studs” or to make mixed ethnicity babies with the Caucasian slave masters. This benefitted the slave masters as the children of the slave mothers followed the condition of the mother (partus sequitur ventrem) (Williams 2013, p.67). The slave owners through a practice called the “fancy trade”, a practice co-morbid with the salve trade, further violated the sexual autonomy of the African woman. Slavers would buy and sell the most attractive African women for the exclusive purpose of them being the slavers mistresses. In North Carolina the famous octoroon balls allowed rich Caucasian slavers to meet and purchase these women (White 1999, pp.37-38). Furthermore, the slave owners also used the African enslaved women for their own sexual gratification, with the knowledge of their wives (Williams 2013, p.60). The enslaved women were often promised their freedom if they acquiesced but they and the children that resulted from these relations were often sold to other plantations. Regardless, the enslaved women did not have a choice in any of the sexual relations (White 1999, p.15).

On top of all that abuse, the slavers also forced the African’s to convert to their religion, Christianity. The enslaved Africans were initially suspicious of Christianity, as traditional African religions were part of an aural tradition, whereas this new religion was a “book religion” (Fulop 1997) (Raboteau 2004) (Sernett 1999). Early African American literature meditated upon this stating that you could “hear” the book by reading (Gates 1988). This was because the Bible was first introduced to them by preaching from reading the stories to them. In particular, the evangelical branch of Protestantism took what could be considered as a womanist episteme, as they put emphasis on both the Bible and ones own personal experience of God (Junior 2015, p.40).

Whenever we deal with the history of missions to enslaved African people one has to question the kind of Christianity that was transported to the slaves. It wasn’t even Christianity at all. Any kind of religious tradition that says: “you can be free spiritually but raped and tortured and brutalized in the social world”, isn’t any religion at all, it’s an occult practice. The slave owners then used this “Christianity” to pacify the slaves and make them compliant and accept their slave status and poor psychosocial realities. The main promise being, if you behave and accept this mistreatment, then when you die you will go to heaven.

Many forms of Christianity that were transferred to the slaves via the colonialists were embedded with capitalist ideology. The teachings that they fed the slaves pacified them, making them easier to make money from, the colonial Christianity, as mentioned earlier was also used to justify the “farming” of African’s, to make more slave fodder. The colonial Christianity that was handed down to the enslaved peoples was an enforcer of colonial capitalist agendas. Today, Christianity is still prevalent amongst the African-Caribbean diaspora that reside within Anglo-America (Britain and the Americas) and the churches that the colonialists built are there today and what they taught has filtered down to the modern day African-Caribbean Diaspora in Anglo-America, the same way their slave surnames have filtered down through the generations. As a consequence, African-Caribbean Anglo-American peoples have been conditioned to accept and tolerate abuse and anti-social behaviour between and against themselves and from other ethnicities directed at them and within their churches. Sadly, some of the men still act like “studs” and have babies with multiple women, some are still illiterate, don’t exercise civil liberties like voting and there is a serious problem with a lack of social cohesion.

One has to be very critical of these “Christian” traditions that evolved out of colonialism because they were grown inside of colonial capitalism and therefore they do not deconstruct imperialism or any of the economic underpinnings of empire that they belong to. This is true of any form of Christianity that was transferred to the slaves via the colonialists; it was embedded with capitalist ideology. The teachings that they fed the slaves pacified them, making them easier to make money from. Life can only exist when chemical compounds do not use absorbed energy for their own kinesis but disperse it among other chemical compounds and let it transmute into chemical bonds. In order for the wealthy to stay rich, poor people need to stay poor. Hence rich people want poor people to believe that their fate is set and righteous or even due to their own stupidity (Abarim Publications 2018). This idea is what the colonialists transferred to the slaves. They tried to make the poor trust the power of lighting candles in church or hours of quiet prayer and other passive acts because if poor people became properly informed, they would rise up (Abarim Publications 2018).

Sinning has nothing to do with being guilty and everything with being in a situation in which you don’t belong or even want to be. Leaders will want you to believe that sin has to do with being uppity, but capitalism is of course the greatest enslaver of all, and the imposition of poverty the most evil of evils:

[1 Timothy 6:10 NLT] “[10] For the love of money is the root of all kinds of evil. And some people, craving money, have wandered from the true faith and pierced themselves with many sorrows.”

This culture of uneven distribution of wealth goes hand in hand with a culture of misinformation, misdirection and sedative surrogates “whiffs of plastic luxury and base entertainment, which are all “part of their enslavement” (in the words of Tacitus; Agricola.1.21). This is why God said in Hosea “My people are destroyed for lack of knowledge” (4:6). Fortunately, Christ unlocks the treasures of wisdom and knowledge (see Colossians 2:3) and knowledge will buy us all out of the slave market. Slavery comes with ignorance and freedom comes with knowledge (See Proverbs 18:15, Isaiah 11:9, Malachi 2:7, Luke 1:77, 1 Corinthians 12:8, Colossians 1:9, 1 Thessalonians 5:21, Philippians 1:9, Ephesians 3:9, 2 Timothy 2:7, 2 Peter 1:5). The gospel of Jesus Christ is about the absolute law of nature; the knowledge of which will set us free (See John 8:32). The effect of preaching the gospel is not to form another legion of quietly compliant people (which is what the rich people preach) but poverty relief and a Cambrian explosion of mental life. Sin is nothing else than being restricted and confined. Freedom is God’s gift and autonomy is the ultimate working principle of creation, this is called the Heisenberg’s uncertainty principle. The word Christ means, “anointed” and marks anyone who is the boss of his or her own life:

[1 John 2:20-27 NLT] “[20] But you are not like that, for the Holy One has given you his Spirit, and all of you know the truth. [21] So I am writing to you not because you don’t know the truth but because you know the difference between truth and lies. [22] And who is a liar? Anyone who says that Jesus is not the Christ. Anyone who denies the Father and the Son is an antichrist. [23] Anyone who denies the Son doesn’t have the Father, either. But anyone who acknowledges the Son has the Father also. [24] So you must remain faithful to what you have been taught from the beginning. If you do, you will remain in fellowship with the Son and with the Father. [25] And in this fellowship we enjoy the eternal life he promised us. [26] I am writing these things to warn you about those who want to lead you astray. [27] But you have received the Holy Spirit, and he lives within you, so you don’t need anyone to teach you what is true. For the Spirit teaches you everything you need to know, and what he teaches is true–it is not a lie. So just as he has taught you, remain in fellowship with Christ.”

Do not allow anyone to tell you who you are and what you should do with your life. It is for freedom that Christ has set us free:

[Galatians 5:1 NLT] “[1] So Christ has truly set us free. Now make sure that you stay free, and don’t get tied up again in slavery to the law.” (Abarim Publications 2018)

The modern day African-Caribbean is living with that legacy of Colonial “Whiteanity” and the pacifying un-biblical ideas that come with them have been transferred to the modern day Caribbean, mixing with their faith. We have to question what happens when we take on a religious tradition that is structured to keep us impoverished, dis-empowered and disorganized and reproduce it uncritically.

African-Caribbean people need to start asking why are the most famous churches not taking a more active role in promoting the well-being of the African-Caribbean diaspora? They are happy to take our money. The Evangelical “Christians” in America are backing Donald Trump in a big way. Why are they not questioning him and his attitudes towards immigrants and African American people? Any kind of “church” that supports hegemonies that are happy to abuse one set of people are not churches at all. Look at what Trumps spiritual advisor Paula White said (follow this link to find out more). She’s a racist denounce it, say it like it is. I am a Christian and I am telling you be suspicious of organized religion. By supporting individuals like they are again using Christianity to justify maltreatment. There is a difference between being USED by God and being OF God. Anyone who says Trump is OF God is mistaken. Has he repented of his views towards s**thole countries? Has he said sorry to Obama for demanding to see his birth certificate? Has he seemed sorry for the Central Park Five? (follow this link to find out more) No. Then what kind of “Christianity” is backing him? The kind that enslaved my ancestors, don’t believe them. They aren’t Christians, double check what they are saying, like the pharasees, what they are teaching might be correct but how they are living their lives is not.

Anglo-American African-Caribbeans need to start correcting each other, questioning their leaders, stop sucking the sack of misinformation, quit shooting each other, quit sowing your wild oats, go to school, pay attention at school and educate yourself on your history, vote and come together as a community. The reason why the slavers would split up families was because a divided people are easier to conquer.

Here’s what the Bible really says about abuse and what the colonial masters never wanted the African Diaspora to understand:
THE TRUTH

Let us examine the original Greek translated as sin. The Greek verb αμαρτανω (hamartano) [In bold in the verse below] used in Luke 17:4 et al is translated as in or wrongs in later translations:

[Luke 17:4 NLT] “[4] Even if that person wrongs you seven times a day and each time turns again and asks forgiveness, you must forgive.””

This verb describes the difference between three things: aim and impact, purpose and application, or intent and realization… This concept of “sin” has now come to mean being caught breaking the law. There are two kinds of law: human law and God’s law. God’s law is natural law and is what binds atoms into objects and natural compounds into living creatures. Natural law governs the biosphere and forms each creature according to its personal constitution and its place relative to the others (See Psalm 50:10-11, 104:10-14, Matthew 6:26) God’s law also aims for people to grow into fruit-bearing adults who fit perfectly into the world:

[Colossians 1:16 NLT] “[16] for through him God created everything in the heavenly realms and on earth. He made the things we can see and the things we can’t see–such as thrones, kingdoms, rulers, and authorities in the unseen world. Everything was created through him and for him.”

Human law is derived from the whims of humans following their own appetites. Unfortunately, we are all stuck in the transitional period between a humanity consisting of tribes and an integrated global economy. Sinning has nothing to do with breaking a formal law and everything with getting in the way of nature, God’s law:

[Ephesians 4:30 NLT] “[30] And do not bring sorrow to God’s Holy Spirit by the way you live. Remember, he has identified you as his own, guaranteeing that you will be saved on the day of redemption.” (Abarim Publications 2018)

When you restrict each other it is sin. Slavery was sin, in fact, any kind of slavery is sin, no kind of abuse or anti-social behavour should go uncontested. Yes the bible says to forgive but if you need to call the police on your son do it. We are not being leaders in our communities if we just let stupidity and abuse go by the by. That is what we have been conditioned to do through “Whitanity” and it is destroying African-Caribbean communities in Anglo-America. All that happens is they go to jail and end up slaving for “massa” making number plates.

Therefore, never tolerate bad people in the church

[1 Corinthians 5:9-13 NLT] “[9] When I wrote to you before, I told you not to associate with people who indulge in sexual sin. [10] But I wasn’t talking about unbelievers who indulge in sexual sin, or are greedy, or cheat people, or worship idols. You would have to leave this world to avoid people like that. [11] I meant that you are not to associate with anyone who claims to be a believer yet indulges in sexual sin, or is greedy, or worships idols, or is abusive, or is a drunkard, or cheats people. Don’t even eat with such people. [12] It isn’t my responsibility to judge outsiders, but it certainly is your responsibility to judge those inside the church who are sinning. [13] God will judge those on the outside; but as the Scriptures say, “You must remove the evil person from among you.””

The Bible says that we are not even supposed to associate with people who are abusive or cheat you or indulge in sexual sin. It also says we have a responsibility to correct those in the church. I denounce the bad behaviour that has gone on in my family. The practice of “studs” fathering babies left right and centre NEEDS TO STOP. We are not slaves anymore when that was forced upon us. Now it’s just outright stupidity. Tolerating it and not calling it out is not faith, it’s not Christianity, it’s Colonial “Whitanity” and occult. If the Bible says we should confront these things, WHY ARE WE NOT DONG IT? In fact, Paul rebukes the Corinthians for having spiritual pride for not calling people to account.

[1 Corinthians 5:1-2, 5 NLT] “[1] I can hardly believe the report about the sexual immorality going on among you–something that even pagans don’t do. I am told that a man in your church is living in sin with his stepmother. [2] You are so proud of yourselves, but you should be mourning in sorrow and shame. And you should remove this man from your fellowship. … [5] Then you must throw this man out and hand him over to Satan so that his sinful nature will be destroyed and he himself will be saved on the day the Lord returns.”

So we are actually committing the sin of spiritual pride when we are not confronting the anti-social, abusive behaviour of our family members. It’s pride, Pride acts as a barrier between us and God. This is what the Bible says about pride:

{Isaiah 13:11 NLT] “[11] “I, the LORD, will punish the world for it’s evil and the wicked for their sin. I will crush the arrogance of the proud and humble the pride of the mighty”

Abuse must be confronted and if someone has something against you go and be reconciled

[Matthew 18:15-18 NLT] “[15] “If another believer sins against you, go privately and point out the offense. If the other person listens and confesses it, you have won that person back. [16] But if you are unsuccessful, take one or two others with you and go back again, so that everything you say may be confirmed by two or three witnesses. [17] If the person still refuses to listen, take your case to the church. Then if he or she won’t accept the church’s decision, treat that person as a pagan or a corrupt tax collector. [18] “I tell you the truth, whatever you forbid on earth will be forbidden in heaven, and whatever you permit on earth will be permitted in heaven.”

Abuse is sin it says here clearly that this must be confronted; you confront them to win them over so they can grow and be the person that God wants them to be. In fact Jesus and the gospel message is described as being a stone in Luke:

[Luke 20:17-18 NLT] “[17] Jesus looked at them and said, “Then what does this Scripture mean? ‘The stone that the builders rejected has now become the cornerstone.’ [18] Everyone who stumbles over that stone will be broken to pieces, and it will crush anyone it falls on.”

[Luke 12:49-53 NLT] “[49] I have come to set the world on fire, and I wish it were already burning! [50] I have a terrible baptism of suffering ahead of me, and I am under a heavy burden until it is accomplished. [51] Do you think I have come to bring peace to the earth? No, I have come to divide people against each other! [52] From now on families will be split apart, three in favor of me, and two against-or two in favor and three against. [53] ‘Father will be divided against son and son against father;mother against daughter and daughter against mother;and mother-in-law against daughter-in-law and daughter-in-law against mother-in-law.'”

The Gospel of Jesus is the cornerstone because He is the standard that we are to align and measure ourselves to. Jesus and His message is also a stumbling block to some because they cannot accept it or follow it. This shows that the gospel is supposed to be arresting. In fact, the above verses show that if the Gospel you are hearing is not in some way confronting or challenging you in your life, ITS NOT THE GOSPEL AT ALL It’s witchcraft.

Confrontation is not wrong; it can be done in an assertive, reconciliative way. The reasons for confronting bad behaviour is so that it does not spread and people can heal and stop manifesting negative behaviours that are going to land them in hell. The verse above states that you talk to them privately, then in front of other people, then the church then treat them as a pagan. This could mean understand them to not be a Christian. Ok ok ok, for the purpose of discussion, just because a person disagrees with you it does not make them wrong, this just shows how to confront them. The bible also puts an emphasis on the person who has sinned to reconcile themselves with other people:

[Matthew 5:23-24 NLT] “[23] “So if you are presenting a sacrifice at the altar in the Temple and you suddenly remember that someone has something against you, [24] leave your sacrifice there at the altar. Go and be reconciled to that person. Then come and offer your sacrifice to God.”

The lack on reconciliation that has occurred within my African-Caribbean family is appalling. This models the praxis of the colonial masters when they mistreated the slaves. They were not able to fight back or to expect an apology. I along with the others who have been abused within my family am owed acknowledgement and reconciliation. Brushing aside what has happened is not biblical. Forgiving them is, lack of reconciliation is not.

Faith without works is meaningless, along with sacrifices without goodness

Unfortunately, some people think that they are Christians but they are not. Being a Christian is not just about going to church, singing hymns, reading the Bible and praying. Anyone can do that. Being a Christian is about those little moments where your behaviour is different and that is what will make people notice as God said in Isaiah:

[Isaiah 1:11-19 NLT] “[11] “What makes you think I want all your sacrifices?” says the LORD. “I am sick of your burnt offerings of rams and the fat of fattened cattle. I get no pleasure from the blood of bulls and lambs and goats. [12] When you come to worship me, who asked you to parade through my courts with all your ceremony? [13] Stop bringing me your meaningless gifts; the incense of your offerings disgusts me! As for your celebrations of the new moon and the Sabbath and your special days for fasting–they are all sinful and false. I want no more of your pious meetings. [14] I hate your new moon celebrations and your annual festivals. They are a burden to me. I cannot stand them! [15] When you lift up your hands in prayer, I will not look. Though you offer many prayers, I will not listen, for your hands are covered with the blood of innocent victims. [16] Wash yourselves and be clean! Get your sins out of my sight. Give up your evil ways. [17] Learn to do good. Seek justice. Help the oppressed. Defend the cause of orphans. Fight for the rights of widows. [18] “Come now, let’s settle this,” says the LORD. “Though your sins are like scarlet, I will make them as white as snow. Though they are red like crimson, I will make them as white as wool. [19] If you will only obey me, you will have plenty to eat.”

Going to church, wearing a nice hat, singing hymns and doing solos whilst secretly enabling the mess in your African-Caribbean community is not going to get you into heaven. In fact, verse 13 says that kind of thing disgusts God. It’s not biblical. Get your private life in order, call out wrong when wrong is done and don’t brush it aside. Sadly, the colonial past of my family has infected their faith with inappropriate doctrine, making them permissive of evil and mistreatment. This is wrong and this permissiveness alone is sinful. It says in the Bible:

[James 2:14-26 NLT] “[14] What good is it, dear brothers and sisters, if you say you have faith but don’t show it by your actions? Can that kind of faith save anyone? [15] Suppose you see a brother or sister who has no food or clothing, [16] and you say, “Good-bye and have a good day; stay warm and eat well”–but then you don’t give that person any food or clothing. What good does that do? [17] So you see, faith by itself isn’t enough. Unless it produces good deeds, it is dead and useless. [18] Now someone may argue, “Some people have faith; others have good deeds.” But I say, “How can you show me your faith if you don’t have good deeds? I will show you my faith by my good deeds.” [19] You say you have faith, for you believe that there is one God. Good for you! Even the demons believe this, and they tremble in terror. [20] How foolish! Can’t you see that faith without good deeds is useless? [21] Don’t you remember that our ancestor Abraham was shown to be right with God by his actions when he offered his son Isaac on the altar? [22] You see, his faith and his actions worked together. His actions made his faith complete. [23] And so it happened just as the Scriptures say: “Abraham believed God, and God counted him as righteous because of his faith.” He was even called the friend of God. [24] So you see, we are shown to be right with God by what we do, not by faith alone. [25] Rahab the prostitute is another example. She was shown to be right with God by her actions when she hid those messengers and sent them safely away by a different road. [26] Just as the body is dead without breath, so also faith is dead without good works.”

Tolerating any kind of abuse or anti-social behaviour is not Christian and enabling or covering it up, to the detriment to other peoples health is not Christian either. Well, I suppose it is very Christian. Looking in these modern times where American Evangelical Christians back Donald Trump as a presidential candidate really exposes the phony nature of the movement. Donald Trump has been linked to far right groups, he’s in the White House with his third baby mama, who is the woman he was having an affair with when he was married to his second wife. He was also having an affair on his third wife with a stripper, whilst she was pregnant and this is the type of person that the “Christians” are supporting… If you are saying that you are a Christian and not behaving like one or even worse covering up or dismissing the abusive behaviour of other’ or using the Bible to say that what an individual is doing is OK and people should list (yes I’m talking about you Mr Sessions) there is no point even calling yourself a Christian. Behaving like a true believer requires confronting abuse and bad B These ideals would not have been considered mainstream African-Caribbean Christian thought in the 1700’s – early 1800’s because confrontation of abuse does not correlate with slavery. In fact, during colonial times, preachers who preached to the enslaved peoples that Jesus came to set them free were jailed!

The colonialists showed the enslaved peoples faith for show, they were one way in church and another way out of church and this is the kind of Christianity that I have observed within my family. Our faith cannot just be for show, on the outside everyone sees one thing but what’s going on behind closed doors is more important. As I said earlier we cannot go to church in big hats, singing hymns and not be doing simple things like providing justice to each other in our private lives and expect to call yourself a Christian because you are not. That makes you a Pharisee:

[Matthew 23:5-7, 23, 25, 27-28 NLT] “[5] “Everything they do is for show. On their arms they wear extra wide prayer boxes with Scripture verses inside, and they wear robes with extra long tassels. [6] And they love to sit at the head table at banquets and in the seats of honor in the synagogues. [7] They love to receive respectful greetings as they walk in the marketplaces, and to be called ‘Rabbi.’ … [23] “What sorrow awaits you teachers of religious law and you Pharisees. Hypocrites! For you are careful to tithe even the tiniest income from your herb gardens, but you ignore the more important aspects of the law–justice, mercy, and faith. You should tithe, yes, but do not neglect the more important things. … [25] “What sorrow awaits you teachers of religious law and you Pharisees. Hypocrites! For you are so careful to clean the outside of the cup and the dish, but inside you are filthy–full of greed and self-indulgence! … [27] “What sorrow awaits you teachers of religious law and you Pharisees. Hypocrites! For you are like whitewashed tombs–beautiful on the outside but filled on the inside with dead people’s bones and all sorts of impurity. [28] Outwardly you look like righteous people, but inwardly your hearts are filled with hypocrisy and lawlessness.”

The historic abuse and ongoing abuse needs to be dealt with, we must be as clean in our private spheres as we appear in our public spheres. The Christians and Christian teaching that does not do this IS NOT CHRISTIANITY.

There must be parity between members

As mentioned earlier, I tried to confront family members about abuse. Due to being amongst the younger and members of the family, as well as the fact that I am not being a boy or married or as wealthy as I would like my opinion was discounted. This is not biblical in a context like this and is very colonial and parochial thinking. To not consider the views of an adult woman legitimate or see the African-Caribbean woman is , for some to continue slavery.

This kind of self destructive division is a-typical of Black culture and the colonialists played on this and exacerbated it to keep us divided whilst they strengthened ties with the colonies and grouped together. This is not how Christians aught to be Paul had a brilliant metaphor of the church where he described it as a body, each of the parts having their own job and each job is important and each member is interdependent. Note Paul also says in the last verse that some parts that seem more insignificant are actually the most important parts of all!

[1 Corinthians 12:12-27 NLT] “[12] The human body has many parts, but the many parts make up one whole body. So it is with the body of Christ. [13] Some of us are Jews, some are Gentiles, some are slaves, and some are free. But we have all been baptized into one body by one Spirit, and we all share the same Spirit. [14] Yes, the body has many different parts, not just one part. [15] If the foot says, “I am not a part of the body because I am not a hand,” that does not make it any less a part of the body. [16] And if the ear says, “I am not part of the body because I am not an eye,” would that make it any less a part of the body? [17] If the whole body were an eye, how would you hear? Or if your whole body were an ear, how would you smell anything? [18] But our bodies have many parts, and God has put each part just where he wants it. [19] How strange a body would be if it had only one part! [20] Yes, there are many parts, but only one body. [21] The eye can never say to the hand, “I don’t need you.” The head can’t say to the feet, “I don’t need you.” [22] In fact, some parts of the body that seem weakest and least important are actually the most necessary. [23] And the parts we regard as less honorable are those we clothe with the greatest care. So we carefully protect those parts that should not be seen, [24] while the more honorable parts do not require this special care. So God has put the body together such that extra honor and care are given to those parts that have less dignity. [25] This makes for harmony among the members, so that all the members care for each other. [26] If one part suffers, all the parts suffer with it, and if one part is honored, all the parts are glad. [27] All of you together are Christ’s body, and each of you is a part of it.”

Although the different parts have different jobs and look different, some with more exciting jobs than others; due to their interdependence they are all equal. True Christians enjoy parity, oneness and unity. We are all different but equal working towards shared goals. Jesus himself said that we are all on the same level when he said:

[Matthew 23:8-10 “[8] “Don’t let anyone call you ‘Rabbi,’ for you have only one teacher, and all of you are equal as brothers and sisters. [9] And don’t address anyone here on earth as ‘Father,’ for only God in heaven is your spiritual Father. [10] And don’t let anyone call you ‘Teacher,’ for you have only one teacher, the Messiah.”

And furthermore Jesus also said that those who are in charge should not be dominating those under them:

[Luke 22:25-27 NLT] “[25] Jesus told them, “In this world the kings and great men lord it over their people, yet they are called ‘friends of the people.’ [26] But among you it will be different. Those who are the greatest among you should take the lowest rank, and the leader should be like a servant. [27] Who is more important, the one who sits at the table or the one who serves? The one who sits at the table, of course. But not here! For I am among you as one who serves.”

This sentiment was reiterated in 1 Peter to elders [of a church]:

[1 Peter 5:3-4 NLT] “[3] Don’t lord it over the people assigned to your care, but lead them by your own good example. [4] And when the Great Shepherd appears, you will receive a crown of never-ending glory and honor.”

So where is the biblical precedent to dismiss my grievances? There is none. For-shame. In fact, Paul goes on to say:

[1 Timothy 4:12 NLT] “[12] Don’t let anyone think less of you because you are young. Be an example to all believers in what you say, in the way you live, in your love, your faith, and your purity.”

Hierarchical familial structures that enslave are direct iterations of the kind of Christianity that the Caucasian slavers used to keep the African’s bound and by not addressing abuse or negative behaviours we are repeating and reliving colonial evils. It must stop. These structures existed because the African’s were not considered equal and they were not treated equally and this warped idea of a Christianity that enslaves and puts people on different levels is evil and untrue. We are all equal, no one has a right or biblical precedent, in a context like this, to dismiss someone’s opinion or to say that a person should just have thick skin. Those mindsets are there to continue the enslavement and stop us from progressing and keep us sinning as mentioned earlier, lack of reconciliation and lack of confrontation of negative behaviours IS sin.

Forcing burdens on people unnecessarily is un-scriptural

I don’t know why in our communities we force each other onto each other. Time and time again my dear mother has been told she should keep her middle aged brother and only a select few including myself have told her it is not right. Those people are hypocrites who will not take him in themselves and play the Christianity card that she is being a good Christian when she bares with him by keeping him instead of getting him the help that he needs. He’s abusive and wasteful. Those people, again African-Caribbean Anglo-American Christians, descendants of slaves are still seeing suffering through the lenses of Colonial “Whiteanity”. Unreasonable demands were always put on the salves and they were told that it was their Christian duty to bear with it. They are making unreasonable demands and conflating them with Christian duty. This is absurd; when Paul was working with the different churches he was self-sufficient and did not consider it a “duty” of others to host him:

[1 Thessalonians 2:7-8 NLT] “[7] As apostles of Christ we certainly had a right to make some demands of you, but instead we were like children among you. Or we were like a mother feeding and caring for her own children. [8] We loved you so much that we shared with you not only God’s Good News but our own lives, too.”

It’s “religious” not Christian to make demands that are unreasonable, unrealistic and unfair of others then emotionally blackmail them with hell if they do not comply, especially when they are not prepared to help you, like my aunt who would not take my uncle in but expects us to keep him for years. That is what the slavers did to our ancestors. Jesus described people who do such things as Pharisees:

[Matthew 23:2-4 NLT] “[2] “The teachers of religious law and the Pharisees are the official interpreters of the law of Moses. [3] So practice and obey whatever they tell you, but don’t follow their example. For they don’t practice what they teach. [4] They crush people with unbearable religious demands and never lift a finger to ease the burden.”

Destroyed for lack of knowledge

You wonder why there is so much strife and disorder and people being jailed and shot in the Anglo-America African-Caribbean population, Am I the only one that thinks that’s strange? I postulate that our circumstances are partly due to the fact that we are constantly sinning towards each other, upsetting each other because we do not truly know God or the scriptures. Additionally, we have inherited an occult form of Christianity from our ancestors’ colonial masters, which is designed to abuse, pacify and make money of African people, by making us far too tolerant to abuse and anti-social behaviour, which damages us physically, psychologically, spiritually, economically and financially. Anglo-American African-Caribbean people who support people and structures that oppress them are not Christians. These kind of people and things are the reason why former colonial countries still continue to benefit financially from the occult form of Christianity that African-Caribbean people absorb. We have kept their names, we have said “oh well that’s over and done we should just forgive and forget now”, instead of pursuing reparations like the Jews, so the colonial powers got to keep the wealth they made off slavery and still gain because when we [members of the African Diaspora] get ill or poor from following backward belief systems, we go to “massa” (the colonial powers) and give voluntarily give them our money for pills, therapy, medical assistance and loans… The plan of the colonial masters has worked with shocking efficiency to the point that they are still making money off. Let me make this excruciatingly clear. There is no scriptural justification whatsoever for a passive attitude towards sin, antisocial behaviour and abuse and a lack of awareness of this is destroying us. As it says in Hosea:

[Hosea 4:6 NLT] “[6] My people are being destroyed because they don’t know me. Since you priests refuse to know me, I refuse to recognize you as my priests. Since you have forgotten the laws of your God, I will forget to bless your children.”

The latter part of this verse is chilling, it says here when we forget God by not following His commands; God will forget our families and us. Ignorance of His ways does not seem to be an excuse. You will still be punished, if not in this life certainly in the life to come.

Sadly, there are child abusers in my family who do not even realise or acknowledge that they are child abusers and are suffering because of lack of knowledge. I genuinely believe that some of my family members are struggling because of that.

You do not get away with it, as it says in the word:

[Luke 17:2-3 NLT] “[2] It would be better to be thrown into the sea with a millstone hung around your neck than to cause one of these little ones to fall into sin. [3] So watch yourselves! “If another believer sins, rebuke that person; then if there is repentance, forgive.”

The above verse of scripture means that if you cause a little child to sin your punishment will be so severe it will be worse than drowning. Remember that as was mentioned earlier “sin” is being in a state that is unnatural as well as being in a restricted state (Abarim Publications 2018). When you do bad things against people you are restricting and violating their liberty to not be wronged or restricted. I was restricted severely when I was beaten and not allowed to cry as a child. My liberty to be at peace in my own house has been restricted and restrictions have been put on my voice and adulthood through the continual disrespects and disregard of my opinions. No doubt the colonialists did the same things to the slaves.

We don’t need slave masters any more, we are happily doing it to ourselves, using the Bible to justify it, again. If the people in question realised what they had done, perhaps they would have repented ages ago but they have not and God being a just God is punished them for it. Additionally, we [Anglo-American African-Caribbeans] are putting barriers between us and God by doing things against his will and that is stifling our spiritual/emotional/health/financial development. However, Jesus is the light of the world and these things have been brought to the forefront because Jesus wants to set us free so we can escape abusive, self deprecating habits, that’s why:

[Mark 4:22 NLT] “[22] For everything that is hidden will eventually be brought into the open, and every secret will be brought to light.”

[John 8:32 NLT] “[32] And you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free.””

[John 8:12 NLT] “[12] Jesus spoke to the people once more and said, “I am the light of the world. If you follow me, you won’t have to walk in darkness, because you will have the light that leads to life.””

We need to know and understand what is wrong so we can be fully free. We are heirs with Jesus:

[John 8:35-36 NLT] “[35] A slave is not a permanent member of the family, but a son is part of the family forever. [36] So if the Son sets you free, you are truly free.”

We are not slaves anymore why are we acting like them?

The Christianity that the enslaved Africans were shown was a Christianity without holiness, it was a tradition that numbed the African-Caribbean people to the abuse that the Caucasians gave them, it also numbed them to the abuse they gave each other. It subordinated and shamed the African-Caribbean woman, seeing her as a sexual object as opposed to a lady, it made it ok for the men to breed like rabbits, with a woman in every port. It made it ok for Caucasian men to do whatever they wanted to us and to this day it gives legitimacy to the wrongs of the Alpha Caucasian Male by not calling him out on what he has done. Instead saying, we should pray for our leaders! We should, we should also hold them to account, they work for us not the other way round. If you are in a position to do so and are not you’re no Christian.

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I Think All #WOMEN should wear #SEXY #UNDERWEAR / #LINGERIE And This Is Why…

Dear All,

So last month was my birthday and I was assessing the last 28 years and I was thinking when I have this, I’m going to do this and that. When I eventually get here, I’m going to stay here and do this. When I finally stop being single, I’m going to do this, that and the other, with my man and I’m going to buy a whole load of sexy clothes that I think a man might enjoy seeing me in bahahahahaha!

Then it hit me! – hold on – why am I waiting to get married before I wear sexy underwear?!!??!?! I was like:

“Oh no no no no no! Catherine you don’t dress your body for men, you dress your body in what makes you feel good and sexy because you’re worth it! You should feel good and sexy without the validation of a man. You shouldn’t need a man to say “ooo yeah!” at you before you feel sexy. The sexiness needs to come from the inside!”

So I marched over to Ann Summers and I bought the sexiest things I could find on the shelves (I was actually surprised at how tame the garments in there were) because it doesn’t matter if a man is going to see you or not. You see you and you should dress up for you, you’re worth it! If it makes you feel good and sexy, DO IT! (Within reason people… E.g. don’t walk around naked in public because it makes you feel sexy that’s just ridiculous, leave that kind of thing for indoors when the curtains are closed lol)

There’s nothing wrong with being sexy and embracing your sexiness! You are a human being, therefore, you are a sexual, sensual being. Embrace it! Even the Bible discusses human sensuality. Read Song of Solomon sometimes known as Song of Song for more info: https://www.blueletterbible.org/nlt/sng/1/1/s_672001

I feel like sometimes as women we just give up sometimes. We think oh nobody is looking at me any more because:

  • I’m waaaay over 50 or
  • I have children or
  • I’ve put on a bit of weight or
  • I’ve been single for a long time or
  • I have glasses or freckles or or or or and so on!

Here’s my rebuttal:

  • FOR THE OVER 50 I SAY! see the picture below:

  • FOR THE OVERWEIGHT I SAY! Some people are overweight because of health reasons and consequently are unable to loose the excess, BUT let me tell you, men are simple creatures. They’ll look regardless…. Some guys like a woman with a big bum! lol. I’m pretty sure my bum gets looked at far more than my face! For those who are physically able to loose the weight, love yourself by having a healthy diet, this will make you loose weight through a process of self love and not self hatred. Exercise and have a healthy lifestyle for health reasons, not aesthetic reasons, it’ll improve your sex drive anyway.Say it with me: “I am loosing weight and having a healthy lifestyle because that will help me to be the best me that I can possibly be”. Don’t try to be a weight that is unhealthy for your frame, if you’re a tall woman you should be heavier than the average woman because there is more of you, if you’re a small woman, when you’ve lost the weight you would naturally be lighter than the average woman etc. To find out the healthy weight for you see the NHS BMI Calculator below for more info:
  • FOR THOSE WITH CHILDREN, your man is thinking some boobs are better than no boobs at all lol! If you cover up because YOU THINK you’re spent and no longer an object of sexual desire following the baby(ies) he’ll just stop initiating, for two reasons:
    • Firstly: because it hurts his feelings MORE THAN YOU KNOW to get knocked back constantly.
    • Secondly: not because he’s not interested in you but because you aren’t interested in you. Your intangible emotional disinterest in yourself is expressed through you tangibly, physically covering up your body in drabness. Listen very carefully, no man is going to intentionally make his life difficult by trying to penetrate the impenetrable. He loves you enough to marry you and put one baby in you and watch the baby come out of you and is still sticking around? Then he probably wants to put another baby in you as well, giving birth isn’t pretty, yet he stayed lol. You’re not giving him the chance to prove how much he loves you and how decent he is (or is not depending on the case). He wants the you he fell in love with, who was confident and loved herself and was emotionally self sufficient. He found your self confidence super sexy! You are sexy! Game face! You’re a Yummy Mummy now! Get rid of those gross old things that your grandmother wouldn’t be seen dead in and make or buy some new hot ones or alter the ones you have (they don’t have to be new), or don’t wear any at all! (in the house not outside, lets be decent…). Go have sex with your husband, initiate, he won’t mind lol. You don’t like the excess baby weight? Exercise! Stretch marks? Coconut oil! You can do this! If you’re a mother you’re a hero anyway! Go Supermum! Go!

  • FOR THE SINGLE I SAY! Get your sexy glad rags on FOR YOU not anybody else, you’re never going to attract anyone sulking in your sackcloth and ashes. Be confident, you know you’re sexy, work out FOR YOU. Then, naturally, with your hot body and confident personality that comes from self love and the knowledge that Jesus thinks you’re wonderful, you’re going to find someone, in the process of loving yourself. Then when that person finally arrives YOU WONT NEED their validation like oxygen, which means you won’t be an emotional parasite on them.

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I’m actually a lot healthier physically and emotionally since I’ve changed my mentality on the matter of sexy underwear, ok I would just like to say my previous pieces did not look like Granny underwear but I just avoided the super slinky hoochie mama stuff which I am now embracing and it totally shows on the outside. I hope by now you guys realise this post isn’t about sexy underwear at all it is in fact about the self confidence that precedes the life choice to decide to wear a particular garment and it’s about wearing nice things because you are worth it, nice things aren’t just for skinny people or young people or people in relationships, they are for everyone! They are for you!

So, I bought a lovely new strappy swimming costume. I want to fit it nicely, so I’ve been working out and eating the right things, this in turn has been giving me the shape I want, in a healthy way because I want to do that for me. This in turn is making me more physically fit which has improved my overall health. Now, since I’ve been working out for me, I’ve actually been more determined in my workout sessions and getting much better results and I actually get more male attention! huzzah! lol! I went to the mall the other day and the dudes were like “whoa!” and “oh yes!” like really loud hehehe. But I don’t care, their attention, which I think was directed at my lady lumps, doesn’t interest me and that is as it should be!!!! It was a welcome surprise and I was flattered but I do not live for the affirmation of others. This has come about because I walk around with my head up high, knowing Jesus loves me and has made me beautiful and I’m slowly but surely loving myself a lot more, not looking around for affirmation, my affirmation comes from the inside. I’m dressing my body in fun things to love me 🙂 and its an exciting experience! Who doesn’t like shopping? Or altering clothes? My mother was happily taking in some clothes yesterday, happily because she had lost weight lol. I’m not saying that I’ve got all this stuff down. I’m still a work in progress myself but bit by bit Jesus is helping me to love myself, not in an arrogant way but in a self confident way.

I bought my sexy strappy things, I’ve been working out so I fit them nicely and I am going to wear them, I don’t care who can or cannot see! Let the sexy underwear revolution begin! [see the video below].

Catherine x

I’ve decided to try new things

Hello

I’m thinking about pushing the boundaries and to stop being so “safe” and to try new things. That is all. I’m busy trying new things lol.

Here’s the playlist with my new song about marital sex in the garden from last week. There’s 3 versions in the playlist, the original, acoustic and orchestral, let me know which one you like best.

Play in the embedded player below or Follow this link to play:

You can also listen on SoundCloud. Follow this link to play or use the embedded player below:

Catherine x

Come Worship With Me! | #freelance #musician #worshipleader |

Hey everybody!

The other day I lead worship at an event! I thought I would put up the footage so people could come worship with me online! The following times are where I am leading worship:

1:28:26-1:33:30 – You’re My Healer

1:33:34-1:37:42 – Strength Will Rise (they eventually clapped in time… lol)

1:46:23-1:58:00 – Jamming Session (Instrumental of one of my original compositions
called ‘Hallelujah’, which I sing later on)

1:58:40-2:03:36 – You’re My Healer (Reprise)

2:09:01-2:12:00-  Hallelujah (original song by me)

Follow this link to listen or use the embedded player below:

The event was bi-lingual, people spoke the following languages: Brazilian, Portuguese, Spanish, English and Yoruba. Normally, at church I speak a bit between songs but I was soo nervous for some reason lol, I didn’t have anyone to translate anything I said anyway lol, they did for the message which was good, next time I’ll ask for a translator.

Big thanks to everybody who helped make Saturday evening happen, as well as those who stepped in last minute to accommodate!

P.S. Let’s crowd source some prayer for Catherine lol. My blood sugar has been up and down lately, let’s pray that it stabilises and I don’t absent mindedly give myself too much insulin again lol.

Lots of love

Catherine

I’M WORKING ON #NEWMUSIC ! #np #soundcloud #hiphop #composer #freelancer #musician #music teacher #phdlife

Hey everybody!

So I’m working on a song for my PhD project. This song is basically about the conversation I had with Jesus whilst I was on my hospital bed when I had to take time out from my studies.
Here’s a snippet of what I’m up to enjoy!

Listen to Work in Progress – Hip-Hop (follow this link or play in the embedded player below)

Love Catherine x

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Guess where I am! On a #date with #Jesus #cheekynandos

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#New Ways To #Pray #Christian #Jesus

Hello everybody,

A short one today I’m v. busy. Two days ago I was very tired after doing a lot and praying a lot. So when it came to bedtime prayers I was very tired. (Every morning I pray and read the Bible before getting out of bed and every night I pray and read the Bible before I go to sleep).

So I decided that that night I would try something different as I was exhausted physically and emotionally. I invited Jesus to come and sit on the bed with me and listen to Christian music with me. Music that I wrote actually and just meditated on the lyrics, what they mean, what I can do better, how can I use these, the themes, reflecting on my relationship with Jesus, where we have been and asking Jesus questions.

I found it refreshing just to meditate in Jesus’ presence. The stress just washed off me and I don’t remember when I fell asleep! 

Try it. Put on some Christian music, if you write Christian music and it’s recorded put it on! Invite God, Jesus and The Holy Spirit to come and sit with you, meditate on God, ask Jesus questions and bask in the Holy Spirit.

Much love,

Catherine